Here is the greatest scene in the history of cinema. This is the famous speech by Alec Baldwin from the Glengarry Glenn Ross film masterpiece (“Americans” in Russian translation).
Baldwin’s character – you take him for a villain – turns to a room full of guys, and tears his ass at the British flag, saying that they will all be fired if they do not fulfill the sales plan:
“Good guy? I do not care. Great father? Fuck you! Go home and play with your kids. If you want to work here, follow the plan. ”
It is rude, tough and borders on sociopathy, but beyond that it is an honest and accurate expression of what the world expects from you. The only difference is that in the real world, people believe that it is impossible to talk to you like that, and decide that it is much better to just let you continue this mess.
This scene from the film has changed my life. Alec Baldwin was nominated for an Oscar for this film – despite the fact that this is the only scene with him. As smart people noticed, the genius of this speech is that half of the audience thinks “Wow, I wonder how it is when you have a boss like that brute?” Go and work! ”
If you were in that room, some of you would take it as a workflow, but in any case you would fill up with the energy of the message, cordially accepting curses, “this guy is awesome!”; while some of you would take it personally, this guy is a scumbag, he has no right to talk to me like that. Or else – the standard maneuver, when narcissism encounters more force – would quietly resent, fantasizing about finding information that would put the boss in a negative light.
The difference between the two positions – resentment against motivation – largely determines whether you will succeed in this world or not. Many people want to match the expression of Tyler Durden from Fight Club: “You are not your job.”
But in general, of course, you are most definitely your job. Yes, your “job” and what you put into the concept of employment may be different things, but in both cases you are the sum of your useful skills, nothing more. For example, being a mother is a job that requires certain skills. This is something that a person can do to benefit the rest of society. Do not be mistaken: your “work” – the benefits that you bring to other people – that’s all you are.
For this reason, surgeons are respected more than comedic writers. For this reason, mechanics are respected by more unemployed hipsters. This is the reason why your work will become your label, if the fact of your death falls into the news – “The defender of the National Football League committed suicide.” Tyler said “You are not your job,” but he also founded a successful soap company and became the head of the international social and political movement. He was completely his work.
Or think of it this way: Chick-fil-A openly opposed gay marriage. But despite the protests, the company continued to sell millions of sandwiches every day. Not because the States agreed with them, but because they make their delicious sandwiches well. And that’s all that matters.
You absolutely do not have to like it. I don’t like it when it rains on my birthday, but it still goes on. Clouds formed, rain fell. People have needs, and through them they value the people they meet. These are simple mechanisms of the universe, and they do not correspond to our desires.
If you are protesting now, saying that you are not a small capitalist and a materialist, that you do not agree that money is everything, I will ask only one thing: Who said a word about money? You are missing something more important.